Our event topic this week is perfect Sex Ever so the audience is speaing frankly about⦠the best intercourse we have ever had! We are joined by Autostraddle copywriter, poet, and journalist Dani Janae while we go into some steamy stories with an in-depth conversation about what can make good sex good. And we also spend a lot of the time back at my sexual hang ups that I could or might not have actually completed many run this summer!
Come your lesbian movie-themed video game, remain when it comes to coming.
SHOW NOTES
+
The 200 Finest Lesbian+ Movies list
that Christina pulled the game from.
+ For those who haven’t review Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
series you really must.
+
Here is the essay
I blogged concerning person We explore throughout the episode. It is merely been 2 years but such has changed!
+ The summer months has gone by therefore we still stan Olivia Rodrigo. Enjoy the
“intense” music movie
.
Dani:
The pet as well as the dog were when you look at the space there ended up being cat and dog tresses every-where. So, I became absolutely having an allergic impulse while we happened to be having sex. Nevertheless the climax ended up being like chef’s hug. It had been the most perfect, perfect knowledge physically.
Christina:
We question whether or not it’s one thing regarding hives that really included some
je ne sais quoi
to that orgasmic experience.
Theme track plays
Drew:
Welcome to
Wait, Is It a Date?
Christina:
Hold off, So Is This a Date?
is actually an Autostraddle podcast exactly about, you guessed it, online dating.
Drew:
Yay! I Like online dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I am a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply basic trans gay person across the internet and⦠I was likely to say globe, but it’s really similar to la and New York.
Christina:
Everyone loves this globe trotting gay individuality you are taking on right here in 2021.
Drew:
I want that. Yeah, its for future years.
Christina:
Yeah. Im the various other number, Christina Tucker, also a writer for Autostraddle, deranged loud gay online. Merely variety of away here, authorship, getting gay, performing everything we can every minute to try to function with this life that individuals’re living.
Drew:
You are really carrying it out. You’re actually operating during that life.
Christina:
Frankly, it is all I am able to carry out. That is all We have, oahu is the only choice.
Drew:
I absolutely appreciate the attempt.
Christina:
The make an effort to live?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Yeah. Actually, truly fearless of me to even try it. You are not wrong, you are not incorrect. Could you be thinking about playing somewhat game nowadays, Drew?
Drew:
Oh my personal God, I’m very thrilled. Can’t delay to see that which you have actually for me.
Christina:
I am thus happy you asserted that since you positively have to say yes, because that’s section of this deal that people’ve developed right here. So you may know about that on autostraddle.com, the web site, we have a list of 200 lesbian movies.
Drew:
I am aware of it. I could have written it.
Christina:
You may possibly have. The things I did is actually take a selection of 10 of these flicks. I stored them to the most effective 50. I’m going to give you the land keyword phrases as chosen by customers on IMDb and you’re gonna need certainly to do you know what film it’s.
Drew:
Okay. I just want the audience, wherever you happen to be, to know that I am not saying planning pull-up record. I do believe that is correct, am We let’s assume that’s correct in the way I should be respecting this game?
Christina:
I believe which is really respectful and that I believe’s reasonable. In addition style of rely on that is certian be a thing that one thinks of rather simple for you, i did not go also left.
Drew:
We have a terrible memory, but yes, I’m going to try to set men and women up for low expectations.
Christina:
Reasonable enough.
Drew:
So if i actually do very well, it really is similar types of hit them out, incase I do not do well, are going to similar, “Well, she talked about⦔ Anyways, continue. Why don’t we start this.
Christina:
Why don’t we start. I am going to focus on pretty general people and I also will receive much more specific even as we go, because many of them tend to be literally exactly what the film is actually two words. So wewill attempt to start out with a wider experience here.
Drew:
I enjoy it.
Christina:
All of our basic film: medications could be the very first story term. New york, New York City will be the second. Hate crime may be the next.
Drew:
Okay.
It Is All-around Me Personally.
Christina:
Yes, it really is! See, I understood you’d be able to perform this.
Drew:
Great.
Christina:
I positively realized you would certainly be capable of this.
Drew:
Additionally, i simply should try to let individuals realize that this is certainly one of the more underrated lesbian motion pictures, and you also really should find it. And Leisha Hailey in this movie has-been my cellphone history for a couple years now. Very merely an enjoyable small reality truth be told there for all of you.
Christina:
We love that. Okay, movie number two. “not known pops,” body organ donor, cemetery, death of child. Oh, she is thinking.
Drew:
Personally I think like i ought to definitely have this considering â hold off, unfamiliar grandfather, death of boy, body organ donor. Oh,
Exactly About My Mom.
Christina:
There truly, see.
Drew:
A differnt one of my favorites.
Christina:
It is extremely exciting to see the things which men and women determine are a story keyword that they have to draw from these movies. I am in addition perhaps not checking out the types which are merely lesbian because that looks kind of like a gimme.
Drew:
Which is how I build most of the list since if you appear up lesbian movies, that which you found was actually the outdated Autostraddle number or some lists that are not really extensive, and so I would actually browse through lists of this keyword phrases of lesbian, lesbian making out, this stuff like women kissing, these exact things, in order to find movies where they’re perhaps not thought of as a lesbian motion picture because they’re a little bit more fascinating, or simply a little bit less drive, that is certainly how I discovered a few of the motion pictures which are today regarding listing, so full circle.
Christina:
Pay attention, IMDb keywords arriving handy for all all the time. This 1, individuals went untamed about this one. Therefore simply gonna study some haphazard words for you. Hey, whistling, woman, black colored activities bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on the job accident.
Drew:
Working crash? Oh, I thought I Got it then, wellâ
Christina:
Cool, in parentheses, the heat.
Drew:
Due to the fact at first I became likely to state
Foxfire,
but then the working accident turned me upwards. On the job collision.
Christina:
Do you need even more?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Pickup truck accidents through a fence.
Drew:
Could it be
Miseducation of Cameron Post?
Christina:
It is not.
Drew:
Because on the job accident will be a really awful method of describing this one from the gay because you’re wanting to convert to perhaps not gayness, attempts to mutilate by themselves or does mutilate themselves. That’d end up being quite intense, but I didn’t know because of the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, this is exactly fooling myself right up.
Christina:
Do you need a few more from me personally?
Drew:
Truck through a fence. I’m certain it’s something that I am just not⦠Yeah, keep going.
Christina:
Regard to a college mortgage. These are typically very peanuts.
Drew:
Wait, maybe you’ve observed this film?
Christina:
I have come across this film.
Drew:
Will it be crazy that I’m not getting hired?
Christina:
It’s slightly wild. I could offer you a year, if you need annually.
Drew:
Should you decide provide me personally per year, We’ll certainly obtain it.
Christina:
Okay. 2016 is your season.
Drew:
2016. Okay, let me know the goals.
Christina:
It will be the movie,
Select Girls,
2016.
Drew:
Oh! Yeah.
Christina:
I must say I thought pickup truck crashes through a wall would provide, but I additionally just love these folks just taking out nouns and merely becoming like, “male.” Is that how you feel?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Okay.
Drew:
Which is a fantastic film. I want to notice that again.
Christina:
Truly. It’s outstanding film.
Drew:
Yeah, its a really fantastic motion picture.
Christina:
All right, our then film. Kissing while having intercourse.
Drew:
The very best form of both, possibly, in ways.
Christina:
Attraction, dude ranch.
Drew:
Is-it
Desert Hearts?
Christina:
Yeah. Therefore I ended up being like, “Okay, you’ve got to get that from then on one.” The other one I found myself attending provide you with was actually â “nipples” was the really prominently included. And that I was like, “Sure, that’s section of that film.”
Drew:
Jesus,
Desert Hearts.
You understand how there is these irritating people out there wanting to end up being Shane. Sorry, i am talking about, if you are attempting to be Shane, I take you. But me personally, my irritating thing usually i am attempting to be Cay. Cay where flick is similar to that will be just who I think of while the particular lesbian that I want to end up being.
Christina:
Yeah, that is correct, can verify. All right, tend to be we ready for our after that any?
Drew:
Yeah.
Christina:
Seasonâ
Drew:
Wait, no, We have one more thing to express about
Desert Hearts.
Christina:
Positive.
Drew:
After the last time I re-watched it within the summertime, it sort of sent me personally into a little spiral, and I also texted this more mature semi-closeted individual who I had kind of begun tentatively planning to go out or date whatever, and who had vanished for monthly, and that I had given up on because I don’t beg individuals date me personally. But I just was love, “Okay.” We watched
Desert Hearts
and I ended up being like, “i assume perhaps occasionally folks have their particular internalized whatever.” And that I texted their and that I said, “If we never ever fulfill, I think you will be sorry.” Therefore we did fulfill, making sure that’s what
Desert Hearts
can perform for you.
Christina:
Wow, which is a really strong recommendation.
Drew:
We most likely must not have fulfilled. We most likely need only let it be. But anyways, shifting, subsequent movie.
Christina:
Our very own subsequent film, metaphysics, scene during opening credits â exactly what that implies, it’s for you to decide â high school football, Chicago, Illinois.
Drew:
Oh,
Princess Cyd.
Christina:
There you go.
Drew:
That’s an excellent film. I love that I keep becoming surprised through this list that I’d a really powerful submit ranking. It is not my positioning, but i did so have a large suppose from inside the ranking and that I love it.
Christina:
Yeah. I simply desire to be obvious to you personally and the audience â again, I chose from leading 50, very these are typically excellent people. For the good types, they’re good types. I Am Aware Drewwill constantly state this might be outstanding motion picture after every one, butâ
Drew:
They can be good motion pictures, all of you should see all of them.
Christina:
Okay. Quick top with heels.
Drew:
Like it.
Christina:
Cock blocked, mini skirt with boots.
Drew:
I mean, could it be
Blockers?
Christina:
It is far from. That might be too simple, I think, for
Blockers.
Drew:
I Do Not recall any miniskirts, butâ
Christina:
Female rear nudity.
Drew:
Okay. Wait an extra. Okay, just what one minute. Okay, cock blocked, mini dress, feminine backside nudity.
Christina:
Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split party.

Drew:
Is it
Certain?
Christina:
It is not.
Drew:
No, I would personally love some slack dancing scene.
Christina:
I favor a rest dancing world in
Certain.
Drew:
A break dancing scene.
Christina:
I’m going to provide: English woman abroad.
Drew:
English lady abroad? This is someone else in which i’m I positively should get it.
Christina:
I’ll need certainly to give you a fairly apparent any at some point, to ensure thatshould help.
Drew:
Okay, give me a clear one.
Christina:
Undercover broker.
Drew:
Is it
D.E.B.S?
Christina:
It is really not
D.E.B.S.
It is adjacent to
D.E.B.S.,
type of movie smart. Here’s someone else, intrigue.
Drew:
Okay, wait, there’s not many genre films.
Christina:
Discovern’t, that is correct.
Drew:
Undercover agent. Well, maybe they truly are utilising the phase, is-it
The Handmaiden?
Christina:
It’s not.
Drew:
Okay, I didn’t think-so. Undercover agent.
Christina:
Do you need the year?
Drew:
I Was Thinking that⦠Positive.
Christina:
Your own year is actually 2017.
Drew:
Undercover representative.
Christina:
I am therefore sorry. You’re going to feel thus dumb as I say the name of your one.
Drew:
Oh no.
Christina:
I am truly sorry about this, but that is kind of exactly the method the cookie crumbles.
Drew:
Oh, its
Carol.
Christina:
No, it isn’t
Carol.
Drew:
No, it says 2015.
Christina:
Yes, I’m Sure that. It isn’t
Carol.
Drew:
But there is an undercover â the guy, that is where I became thinking. Okay, what-is-it? Why does it make me feel dumb?
Christina:
It’s
Atomic Blonde,
you dummy.
Drew:
Oh, which is for the leading 50?
Christina:
It is. I know.
Drew:
Oh, okay.
Christina:
Okay. We’ve got four more, you ready?
Drew:
I do not think dumb for the reason that it one I⦠I mean, i do believe
Atomic Blonde
is actually enjoyable, but I don’t imagine it really is fantastic. That will not in my private very top 50. I really do want the whole world to find out that I’m sure that
Carol
came out in 2015. My personal brain hurt. I recently wish the entire world to find out that. Anyways, carry on.
Christina:
The world today knows that, the record happens to be reflected. All righty: cafe, feeling of scent, novelist, reference to a hamburger, regard to Larry King, centered on memoir, alcoholic, theft, woman wears glasses, living alone, destroying evidence.
Drew:
The mention of Larry King is reallyâ
Christina:
It is a really odd one.
Drew:
Mention of Larry King, ruining evidence.
Christina:
Cat.
Drew:
Oh, would it be
Could You Actually Ever Forgive Me Personally?
Christina:
Truly.
Drew:
I had to develop to redeem myself. I was really in a slump there.
Christina:
You nailed it. In my opinion you have here, I believe you completely got indeed there. Okay, three a lot more, our top three. I do believe these types should be easy for you because I’m sure you.
Drew:
Great, okay, wellâ¦
Christina:
I understand, but I’m saying, isn’t it time?
Drew:
Okay, yeah.
Christina:
Mental health, medication overdose.
Drew:
Can it be
Foxfire?
Christina:
No. Photographer.
Drew:
Oh,
Greater.
Christina:
There we go. Tattoo, girl gang.
Drew:
So is this
Foxfire?
Christina:
Yeah.
Drew:
Oh, i understand
Foxfire.
Christina:
I was like, “Oh, she’s going to only keep speculating
Foxfire
until i recently give the woman
Foxfire.”
Drew:
The secret usually I love
Foxfire
and that I hold planning to remember
Foxfire.
Christina:
I mean, whomst among us?

Drew:
Angelina Jolie, gosh.
Christina:
Okay. This Option, one of those is actuallyâ
Drew:
This is actually the finally one?
Christina:
This is basically the finally one. This might be our very own finally any. Church, denial, household connections.
Drew:
Can it be
Miseducation of Cameron Post?
Christina:
It is not.
Drew:
Can it be
But I Am a Cheerleader?
Christina:
It really is, yes.
Drew:
Indeed. Comedic
Miseducation of Cameron Post.
Christina:
Jokes on laughs. In order that was the game I’m contacting, how good Does Drew understand Lesbian videos???
Drew:
I like just how great our company is picking out names for our video games.
Christina:
Yeah, is in reality mortifying that we also composed that for the name of a Google Doc, that was I considering? It doesn’t also look really good in my own Google Docs.
Drew:
I had a good time and I also’m truly pleased that I got to tell every listeners about all films which they should see. Therefore’ll put the record within the tv show records.
Christina:
Completely.
Drew:
I would personally claim that the list is now at a place in which In my opinion you’d get one thing from seeing all 200 motion pictures. The most important form of record, there seemed to be some material on there that I was not very pleased about. There is still stuff i believe that I don’t really but I think that as a whole, there’s a particular quality control next most recent update that I believe very pleased with and that I think they’re all really worth seeing.
Christina:
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